Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD
Are you tired of overthinking every relationship? Do you worry your partner will leave? Feel anxious about love? You’re not broken. You’re not too much. And you’re definitely not alone. This show is for smart women who are tired of relationship anxiety. Women who want to stop the constant worry and finally feel secure in love. You’ll learn how to: ➡️ Stop overthinking everything your partner says ➡️ Break free from toxic relationship patterns ➡️ Feel confident in love without needing constant reassurance ➡️ Trust yourself to make good relationship choices ➡️ Heal from past relationship trauma ➡️ Build the secure, loving relationship you deserve Whether you’re single and scared to date, in a relationship but always worried, or stuck in toxic patterns - this podcast will help you find peace. I’m Erin Davis, a licensed therapist who helps high-achieving women overcome relationship OCD, intrusive thoughts, and dating anxiety. I’ve helped hundreds of women go from anxious and overthinking to confident and secure in love. Stop letting fear control your love life. You deserve to feel safe, loved, and secure. New episodes every week with real tools that actually work. Ready to quiet your mind and strengthen your relationships? Start listening now. Chat with Erin On Demand to ask your burning relationship questions today at https://bit.ly/erin-ai
Are you tired of overthinking every relationship? Do you worry your partner will leave? Feel anxious about love? You’re not broken. You’re not too much. And you’re definitely not alone. This show is for smart women who are tired of relationship anxiety. Women who want to stop the constant worry and finally feel secure in love. You’ll learn how to: ➡️ Stop overthinking everything your partner says ➡️ Break free from toxic relationship patterns ➡️ Feel confident in love without needing constant reassurance ➡️ Trust yourself to make good relationship choices ➡️ Heal from past relationship trauma ➡️ Build the secure, loving relationship you deserve Whether you’re single and scared to date, in a relationship but always worried, or stuck in toxic patterns - this podcast will help you find peace. I’m Erin Davis, a licensed therapist who helps high-achieving women overcome relationship OCD, intrusive thoughts, and dating anxiety. I’ve helped hundreds of women go from anxious and overthinking to confident and secure in love. Stop letting fear control your love life. You deserve to feel safe, loved, and secure. New episodes every week with real tools that actually work. Ready to quiet your mind and strengthen your relationships? Start listening now. Chat with Erin On Demand to ask your burning relationship questions today at https://bit.ly/erin-ai
Episodes

Jun 3, 2025
Jun 3, 2025
12 min
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You'll hear from an experienced EMDR therapist, Laurel, about the benefits and applications of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) in treating trauma. The discussion covers the practical techniques for reducing the impact of traumatic memories, the importance of inviting positive memories for overall mental balance, and the ethical considerations in therapy. Laurel also explains the different phases of EMDR, including the crucial resourcing and preparation phase, and shares insights on how EMDR can help clients manage their trauma more effectively. A must-watch for those seeking ways to navigate their mental health journey.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to Tuesday Truth Talks01:00 Meet Laurel: EMDR Therapist01:32 Understanding EMDR and Its Applications02:15 Techniques and Methods in EMDR04:32 The Importance of Resourcing in EMDR07:34 Positive Memories and Trauma Processing09:28 Addressing Concerns and Misconceptions11:08 Benefits and Final Thoughts on EMDR12:11 Conclusion and Contact Information
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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

May 30, 2025
May 30, 2025
8 min
Are you struggling with anxiety that therapy and medication just can't fix? You're not alone. In this deeply personal episode, I reveal how discovering my celiac disease changed EVERYTHING - not just for my mental health, but for my marriage that was hanging by a thread.
What if your anxiety isn't just "in your head"? What if the key to feeling better lies in your gut?
In this episode, you'll discover:Why years of therapy wasn't enough to fix my crippling anxiety [00:00]The shocking moment I realized my marriage was in danger [01:42]How a surprise diagnosis changed my entire life [02:59]The science behind how your gut directly affects your mood and relationships [04:28]Simple steps to identify if food sensitivities are sabotaging YOUR mental health [06:58]If you've tried everything to feel better but still struggle with mood swings, fatigue, or relationship problems, this could be the missing piece you've been searching for.
Timestamps:00:00 My Journey with Anxiety and the Mind-Body Connection 01:42 The Lowest Point: Physical and Emotional Struggles 02:59 The Diagnosis: Discovering Celiac Disease 04:28 The Gut-Brain Connection: How It Affects Mental Health 05:23 Impact on Relationships: From Struggles to Healing 06:58 Practical Steps: Identifying and Managing Food Sensitivities 07:59 Conclusion: Transforming Health and Relationships
Your body might be trying to tell you something. Are you ready to listen?
💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now → https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree
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May 27, 2025
May 27, 2025
12 min
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We explore overcoming a fear of the dentist through a live coaching session focused on tapping techniques. This is a personal story about dental trauma while stationed overseas, which has led to severe anxiety. Jennifer, a seasoned counselor, guides through a practical tapping exercise aimed at alleviating this anxiety. This method highlights the simplicity and effectiveness of tapping, demonstrating how it can be used independently to manage stress and fears. For the full session and additional resources, visit vip.livebeyonddoubt.com.
00:00 Introduction to Tuesday Truth Talks00:08 Facing My Dentist Phobia00:19 The Root Cause of My Anxiety01:02 Introduction to Tapping Exercises01:38 Live Tapping Session with Jennifer02:58 Understanding the Benefits of Tapping04:14 Guided Tapping Exercise09:48 Reflecting on the Tapping Experience11:35 Conclusion and Contact Information
Connect with Jennifer here:
🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@jenniferreefe949
🔗 https://www.facebook.com/angelsjen
🔗 https://jennifer-reefe.com/
*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

May 23, 2025
Am I a Narcissist? With Carla Litto | Ep 77
May 23, 2025
May 23, 2025
21 min
💌 Is your brilliant mind sabotaging your love life? Transform relationship overthinking into relationship clarity with my FREE 5-day email course: “The Overthinker's Guide to Love.”
In this episode, I sit down with Carla Lido, a no-nonsense Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in untangling difficult relationships, both romantic and otherwise. Carla chats about her book, Outsmarting Egomaniacs, which is your essential guide to identifying and dealing with narcissists and manipulators. We discuss the misuse of the term 'narcissist,' the real traits you should look for, and why true narcissists never self-reflect. We also explore how OCD sufferers often obsess over being perceived as narcissistic, and Carla breaks down the major differences between narcissistic control and the control seen in OCD. Plus, Carla provides practical advice on setting boundaries with narcissists and keeping your cool. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone navigating emotionally manipulative relationships.
00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Introduction
01:03 Inspiration Behind the Book
01:59 Understanding Narcissism
03:02 Narcissism vs. OCD
05:50 Types of Narcissists
10:57 Gaslighting Explained
12:19 Narcissistic Relationships and Boundaries
16:39 Handling Narcissistic Manipulation
20:41 Final Thoughts and Where to Find More
💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now!
✅ Join my free masterclass "The Relationship Anxiety Fix: 3 Mental Shifts to Quiet the Doubts & Feel Confident in Your Relationship" where I'll show you how to transform your relationship in just 45 minutes.
✨ Stop overthinking and start truly connecting. Transform your relationship starting in week 1 with Obsess Less, Love More — where high-achieving women finally find the relationship peace they deserve. Join now and experience what confidence in love actually feels like.
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May 20, 2025
May 20, 2025
15 min
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Enhancing Intimacy and Self-Confidence: Overcoming Intrusive Thoughts
Today's episode features a conversation about overcoming intrusive thoughts and their impact on sexual wellness. My guest shares her personal journey and strategies for improving intimacy and self-esteem. Discover actionable tips such as effective communication techniques, the significance of small acts of connection throughout the day, and methods to foster a safe and trusting relationship with your body and partner. Tune in to hear valuable insights aimed at helping professional women achieve greater sexual wellness and confidence.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:36 Meet Zoya: A Journey with OCD and Sexual Wellness01:45 Understanding OCD's Impact on Intimacy02:45 Strategies for Overcoming OCD in Relationships05:01 Effective Communication with Your Partner08:06 Practical Tips for Managing OCD in Intimate Moments11:29 The Importance of Connection and Foreplay14:47 Conclusion and Where to Find More Information
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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

May 16, 2025
Wedding Anniversary Story | Ep 76
May 16, 2025
May 16, 2025
10 min
💌 Is your brilliant mind sabotaging your love life? Transform relationship overthinking into relationship clarity with my FREE 5-day email course: “The Overthinker's Guide to Love.”
Have you ever turned a disaster into a favorite story? In today's episode, I share two wedding day mishaps that have become beloved memories. Through these stories, I'll illustrate how perspective shifts can turn relationship challenges into meaningful moments and create stronger bonds. I also touch on coping with imperfection and provide insights on managing relationship issues with humor and grace. Don't forget to subscribe and check out my free email course 'The Overthinkers Guide to Love' at livebeyonddoubt.com. Stay tuned for an upcoming webinar on overcoming relationship anxiety, and join me next week for a special discussion on sexology. Happy anniversary to my wonderful husband!
00:00 Wedding Day Disasters Turned Cherished Memories
01:03 The Fainting Groomsman Incident
04:22 The Missing Wedding Ring Adventure
08:09 Lessons Learned from Wedding Mishaps
09:36 Transforming Relationship Challenges
09:55 Upcoming Topics and Farewell
💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now!
✅ Join my free masterclass "The Relationship Anxiety Fix: 3 Mental Shifts to Quiet the Doubts & Feel Confident in Your Relationship" where I'll show you how to transform your relationship in just 45 minutes.
✨ Stop overthinking and start truly connecting. Transform your relationship starting in week 1 with Obsess Less, Love More — where high-achieving women finally find the relationship peace they deserve. Join now and experience what confidence in love actually feels like.
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May 13, 2025
May 13, 2025
11 min
🎥 Watch the full video in the free members area at vip.livebeyonddoubt.com 📖 Grab Debbie's Book Here: The Mentorship Edge
In this episode of Tuesday Truth Talks, we engage with Debbie Heiser, an applied developmental psychologist specializing in midlife and older stages of life. Debbie elucidates the importance of building supportive community environments and authentic connections. She discusses the often-overlooked link between mentorship and our developmental lifespan, exploring its everyday application and its hierarchical and lateral utilization. Key takeaways include understanding mentorship beyond the workplace, recognizing everyday mentorship moments, and leveraging community as a Rolodex of trusted individuals for personal development and wellness.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:56 Debbie Heiser's Background and Expertise01:21 The Importance of Mentorship01:58 Mentorship in Everyday Life03:48 Building a Supportive Community04:11 The Five Key Elements of Mentorship05:19 The Role of Trust in Mentorship07:08 Debbie's Journey into Mentorship09:00 Practical Steps to Finding a Mentor10:32 Conclusion and Where to Find Debbie
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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Affiliate links may be included where I may receive a commission if you purchase after clicking at no additional cost to you.

May 9, 2025
The Path Less Travelled with Debbie | Ep 75
May 9, 2025
May 9, 2025
26 min
💌 Is your brilliant mind sabotaging your love life? Transform relationship overthinking into relationship clarity with my FREE 5-day email course: “The Overthinker's Guide to Love.”
In this episode of Bossing Up Overcoming OCD, we welcome Debbie Caudle, host of The High Ticket Woman podcast and a public speaker. Debbie shares her wisdom on relationships, faith, and personal growth. She offers therapy, coaching, and courses, including 'The Path Less Traveled,' aimed at helping women live with divine intention. Debbie discusses the importance of self-worth, intentional living, and the impact of societal norms on women's emotional well-being. We also explore the differences between therapy and coaching and how Debbie integrates both to help women transform their lives.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
01:05 Debbie's Multifaceted Career
02:13 The Path Less Traveled: Debbie's Book and Courses
04:26 Helping Women at Crossroads
09:45 Therapy vs. Coaching
13:30 The Culture of Convenience in Relationships
18:31 Faith and Relationship Standards
25:41 Conclusion and Where to Find Debbie
💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now!
✅ Join my free masterclass "The Relationship Anxiety Fix: 3 Mental Shifts to Quiet the Doubts & Feel Confident in Your Relationship" where I'll show you how to transform your relationship in just 45 minutes.
✨ Stop overthinking and start truly connecting. Transform your relationship starting in week 1 with Obsess Less, Love More — where high-achieving women finally find the relationship peace they deserve. Join now and experience what confidence in love actually feels like.
➡️ Please rate the show: scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, & select "Write a Review" to let others know what you loved most about the podcast! ✍️ Thank you!!
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May 6, 2025
May 6, 2025
20 min
🎥 Watch the full video in the free members area at vip.livebeyonddoubt.com
In this episode of 'Tuesday Truth Talks,' a special guest shares her raw and unfiltered story of breaking free from a controlling and toxic relationship. She discusses her personal journey of recognizing narcissistic behavior, letting go of control, and ultimately finding freedom and self-discovery. Listeners will gain insights into the warning signs of abusive relationships, the importance of focusing on what truly matters, and the empowerment found in personal growth.
00:00 Introduction to Tuesday Truth Talks00:28 Meet Anita: Breaking Free from a Toxic Relationship02:10 Anita's Journey to Self-Discovery04:31 Recognizing Narcissistic Behavior06:38 The Turning Point: Deciding to Leave08:51 Life After Leaving: Healing and Growth13:58 Advice for Women in Controlling Relationships18:57 Conclusion: Embracing Self-Love and Independence
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May 2, 2025
May 2, 2025
17 min
💔 Are your relationship worries trying to tell you something… or is anxiety running the show? If you overthink every text, second-guess your partner’s intentions, or constantly wonder if you’re in the right relationship, you’re not alone. This quick quiz will help you separate real red flags from anxious thoughts.
In this episode of Bossing Up, Overcoming OCD, host Erin Davis, a seasoned OCD therapist and relationship coach, guides listeners through overcoming the mental checklists that often plague relationships. Erin shares personal experiences and expert advice, emphasizing how these checklists lead to emotional disconnection. You'll learn three practical strategies to break free from this pattern: focusing on facts, practicing gratitude, and communicating openly with your partner. With insights from Dr. John Gottman's research and a relatable, empathetic tone, Erin demonstrates how to foster genuine connection and satisfaction in your relationships. Tune in to transform your love life and leave perfectionism behind.
00:00 Introduction to Bossing Up and Overcoming OCD
00:37 The Mental Checklist in Relationships
01:28 The Impact of Overthinking on Relationships
05:23 Strategies to Break Free from Overthinking
11:26 The Power of Gratitude in Relationships
14:49 Open Communication with Your Partner
16:09 Conclusion and Next Steps
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Erin Davis, OCD Therapist, helps women untangle from worry thoughts by weaving together their story into a narrative that lets them live in the present and open the door to deep love. She’s the host of, “Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD” which can be found on your favorite podcast platform. With 13+ years of experience, she has helped many women regain control over their lives. Erin blends her expertise with personalized support through therapy and relationship coaching. When not working, Erin is on the ballfield with her boys or taking her certified therapy dog, Rosie for a walk. If you're ready to invite presence, peace, & deep connection in your life, get in touch with Erin at one of the links below!









